Today I am at the “Popeye” coffee shop, waiting to meet the escort girl Amsterdam that I have to interview today. Her name is Sara, and I am really interested in hearing her words.
The agency assured me that the time I will devote to Sara will not be wasted, and the girl was excited to talk to me.
Sara arrives on time and has a very casual look: a red sweatshirt, jeans, and sports shoes. Her gaze strikes me a lot, a gazebo full of energy and joie de vivre, but where I can also see a hidden desire, ready to go wild in the bedroom.
Sara, a charming girl.
Sara sits at my table, and we order something to drink.
I am impatient to know what Sara has to tell, and therefore the interview can begin.
“Hi Sara, thank you for being here with me.”
“Thanks to you for asking to speak to me. I hope to be useful.”
“The first question is difficult: would you recommend your friend to work as an escort?”
“Only in one case: if I was absolutely sure that she is able to have sex with different people every day. If I had even the slightest doubt about this statement, I would advise her against doing it because this business can destroy you psychologically and physically if you allow it. And all the money in the world is not worth physical and psychological torture. ”
“I understand. So you say that having the right attitude is fundamental for this job?”
“Yes, exactly. You cannot do it without, or at least, you cannot do it in the best way. For example, for a singer, it is essential to know how to sing well, but this has not prevented some out of tune artists from having great success, even if for a short period of time. Likewise, there are escorts who do this job just for the money and still have clients. ”
“Several girls have told me that these girls have a short career, and don’t worry too much.”
“I don’t worry too much about this competition either. As you said, their careers are too short to harm me, and my quality is too high compared to theirs to be afraid of them. But this is my advice: do this job only if you love it; otherwise there are many other ways to make money in the sex sector, even less tiring than being an escort. ”
“What kind of jobs?”
“For example, the model. I have a friend who works as a model for newspapers and 18+ sites, and you can’t even imagine how many requests for adult photoshoots she receives. Really many, and often absurd or too extreme to do. She has gained many money, most of the photos are selfies that she can take at home, and she is happy. If my friend became a professional escort, it would be terrible, because it is perfectly normal for her to undress for photos, but the idea of having sex with a stranger it is unacceptable to her. I told her several times that this reasoning doesn’t make much sense, but she has this mindset. Take it, or leave it. ”
“There are probably psychological and control reasons.”
“Yes, I believe it too. Or you can work as a camgirl and still make a lot of money without having sex with strangers. I met girls who made live streams of their sexual relations with boyfriends and who sold private videos online. This is also an interesting way to make money. ”
“In short, working as an escort girl in Amsterdam is not that easy.”
“I don’t want to say it is the hardest job in the world, because it would not be absolutely true. We don’t work on a construction site, we are not boxers, and we don’t break stones with a hammer all day in the sun. We have sex to live and make money, and we dedicate our time to the people who pay us. I can say that it is tiring from a psychological point of view because having sex is beautiful, but it becomes boring after some time, and in fact, I have little sex when I am not working, and from the point, physical sight can be painful. ”
“In what sense do you have little sex when you’re not working?”
“I am single, and if I have to have an occasional relationship to have sex, I prefer not to do it, except for rare exceptions. I can do the same thing in my job and get paid, therefore, if I have to have sex with strangers, I prefer to do it when I’m paid Besides, sex is boring for me now, it’s almost a habit. Once, while he was fucking me, I was thinking about shopping at the supermarket. But I’m good at pretending. ”
“Are you saying you pretend to have pleasure every time?”
“Not every time. There are clients who are nice men, or who have big cocks, or who are good at fucking. With them, it is not necessary to pretend to have orgasms. With others, however, the best thing to do is to simulate an orgasm and make them happy, it’s the best way to have regular customers. ”
“I understand, but in this way, you are deceiving customers.”
“I wouldn’t say I’m deceiving customers, but just to make them happier. They want to have a pleasant experience with me, and if I make them feel powerful and manly, I don’t see what’s wrong with doing it. The customer must always be happy and satisfied; otherwise he will never return to me. ”
“Thanks so much for your time, Sara.”
“Thanks to you, I really enjoyed talking about these things.”
The interview is over.